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Humility

No one humbles himself for Allah except that Allah raises him

The Prophet ﷺ warned that a mustard seed's weight of arrogance keeps a person out of Paradise, and that Allah raises the humble. This lesson gathers the hadith on tawāḍuʿ.

Overview

The Prophet ﷺ was serious about arrogance. He named it as the sin of Iblīs, the reason for the destruction of nations, and the disqualifier from Paradise for the one who nurses it.

Sahih MuslimBook: Book of Faith91Ṣaḥīḥ (authentic)Graded by Muslim
No one who has a mustard seed's weight of arrogance in his heart will enter Paradise. A man said: 'A man loves that his clothes be nice and his shoes be nice.' He said: 'Allah is Beautiful and loves beauty. Arrogance is rejecting the truth and looking down on people.'

Context: Narrated by Ibn Masʿūd.

Source: Sahih Muslim.

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Allah has revealed to me that you should be humble, so that no one boasts over another and no one oppresses another.

Context: Narrated by ʿIyāḍ ibn Ḥimār.

Source: Sahih Muslim.

Jami at-TirmidhiBook: Chapters on Righteousness2029Ṣaḥīḥ (authentic)Graded by al-Tirmidhi
Charity does not decrease wealth. Allah does not increase His servant in forgiveness except in honour. And no one humbles himself for Allah except that Allah raises him.

Context: Narrated by Abu Hurayra. Also in Muslim (no. 2588).

Source: Jami' at-Tirmidhi.

What this means

The Prophet's ﷺ definition of arrogance is precise: rejecting the truth when it comes from someone you look down on, and treating people as beneath you. That means arrogance is not about wearing nice clothes or having position; it is about what you do with truth and with people. A well-dressed humble person and a shabby arrogant person are both possible.

The Prophet's ﷺ own humility

He sat on the floor with his Companions. He answered a slave-girl's call. He ate what was available and never criticised food. When new people came to his gatherings they could not tell him apart from the others. In his final illness he apologised publicly to anyone he might have wronged and offered them the right of retaliation. This is what tawāḍuʿ looks like in practice.

Application today

Notice one moment this week when you find yourself dismissing an idea because of who is saying it. Pause and separate the person from the truth of what they're saying. Then act on the truth, not the source.

Reflection

The Prophet ﷺ defined arrogance as rejecting the truth and looking down on people. On that definition, where is your heart softest, and where is it hardest?

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